January is going out like a lion! We had such wonderful weather. Today was windy, but light jacket weather. Now, well lets just say, I will be staying inside for the next day or so.
I went to work today, and my wonderful mother in law, came over to stay with mom. I ended up gone much longer than expected, as Christine's pickup, once again had issues. I think her pick up hates me!!!
Ron changed the alternator last Sunday. It was still showing a big draw on the battery and her battery would go dead. She had it checked and they said it was good. Yea right. Checked the alternator, and the new one -the one Ron just put in, was only putting out 11 amps! Ugg, no time for this right now!!
O=Picked up a new one, and put it in. Made it 9 miles to Walmart just in the nick of time as the headlights were out as she pulled into the parking lot! changed the battery, and still problems. Sleeting, cold...yuck!!!! So, he pick up is here, and she has mine. just could not risk her traveling all the way home (1 1/2 hour drive) to risk a breakdown in this weather. Sent her home. She had rain, and the temp was down to 32. Hoping she would make it home before the roads froze.
She called, and made it safely. Yea!!! They have already closed most of the schools in the area, UNT (girls college) too! Lots of kids and teachers get to sleep in!
Mom is resting, had a busy day. She has been able to cut down on her pain meds, and tonight she sounded better than she has since last Thursday. She was tired, but her voice and attitude were stronger.
Thanks again for all who call and write. Keep up the great work!!! It means allot to her and Steve. Here's hoping Pat 7 Bill made it home without incident!!!!
Luv to all, and God Bless
Monday, January 31, 2011
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Bill and Pat Cundiff Visit today
Today we were blessed with a visit from their friends Pat & Bill Cundiff. They have family in Weatherford, which is about and hour and a half from here. They had just move here last fall from Oregon. What a small world. Bill and Pat were able to enjoy some of our wonderful warm Texas weather. They will be going back home to Sidney, to a toasty high of -4........ I SOOO don't miss Montana winters.
And I was complaining it is going to be in the 20's mid week. But at least it will warm up here before summer!!! heheheheheheh yes that is me snickering.
It was so great of the Cundiffs' to surprise mom and Steve. I truly hope they have an uneventful trip home, with no weather delays!!!! It was great to see you.
Mom has rested rather well. I think she is appreciating the quiet of the country, more so today!
Over all, it has been a quiet day spent, resting with the company of old friends.
Her appetite is poor, but she is eating and I am proud to say, my coking is much better than the hospital. Mom told me so, so it must be true!!!
Getting her to drink more fluids, is not any easy task. I'm a think'n she is tired of hearing me prod her to try a little bit more!!! But if being her ornery daughter means her feeling better, I am up to the challenge!!!
Well lets hope tomorrow will be just a boring!!!!
Luv to all
And I was complaining it is going to be in the 20's mid week. But at least it will warm up here before summer!!! heheheheheheh yes that is me snickering.
It was so great of the Cundiffs' to surprise mom and Steve. I truly hope they have an uneventful trip home, with no weather delays!!!! It was great to see you.
Mom has rested rather well. I think she is appreciating the quiet of the country, more so today!
Over all, it has been a quiet day spent, resting with the company of old friends.
Her appetite is poor, but she is eating and I am proud to say, my coking is much better than the hospital. Mom told me so, so it must be true!!!
Getting her to drink more fluids, is not any easy task. I'm a think'n she is tired of hearing me prod her to try a little bit more!!! But if being her ornery daughter means her feeling better, I am up to the challenge!!!
Well lets hope tomorrow will be just a boring!!!!
Luv to all
A goods night rest
We all managed a solid-good nights sleep last night. I checked on mom numerous time, but she slept through the night and did not require any additional pain meds. So glad she got some well needed peace and quiet.
Bill and Pat Cunduff will be here to visit this afternoon. They are friends of Mom & Steve, from their church back home. Steve and Bill became very good friends, and the Cunduff's were "Lil Girl"s second home while mom was in the hospital in both Sidney and Billings. They were so kind to take her in and care for her. It gave Mom and Steve peace of mind were she was concerned.
Lil Girl has discovered that she really is a dog and not a people, as she now resides outside with our labs. She adjusted fairly well, but I am sure she would rather sleep in Steve's bed if she were to get the opportunity. I'm sure she views me as the bad guy, but she shed so much, and considering we are dealing with oxygen and keeping things clean, it was just a choice that needed to be made.
We have enjoyed exceptionally warm weather lately. I heard it was up to 79 yesterday. I missed most of it, The previous day was in the 70's as well. We sure get spoiled to this warm stuff, so I am not going to complain to loudly when we get the expected 29 for a high on Tuesday!! Guess ya just have to take the good with the bad, Having a 'few' of those bad days, should just make me appreciate the good days, RIGHT??? That's the story I'm gonna go with!!!! ha ha I know those of you who have suffered the harsh cold winter thus far this year, are finding little to no sympathy for me, so with that I would just like to point out that, you are used to the continued cold, we have 40 plus degree changes in matters of hours, which creates a traumatic temp change, not to mention never knowing which coat to actually take with you! What, still not finding any sympathy for me? OK I'll quit whining!!!!
Well guess I will go bake something yummy for Pat & Bill. I know Steve is excited to see them both. He gets awe fully bored with us two nagging woman all the time. He is certainly outnumbered, as Ron works most of the time. He certainly enjoyed the visit from Mom's siblings
Thanks again for all the calls & prayers! They are so appreciated!!!!!'
Luv to all,
Bill and Pat Cunduff will be here to visit this afternoon. They are friends of Mom & Steve, from their church back home. Steve and Bill became very good friends, and the Cunduff's were "Lil Girl"s second home while mom was in the hospital in both Sidney and Billings. They were so kind to take her in and care for her. It gave Mom and Steve peace of mind were she was concerned.
Lil Girl has discovered that she really is a dog and not a people, as she now resides outside with our labs. She adjusted fairly well, but I am sure she would rather sleep in Steve's bed if she were to get the opportunity. I'm sure she views me as the bad guy, but she shed so much, and considering we are dealing with oxygen and keeping things clean, it was just a choice that needed to be made.
We have enjoyed exceptionally warm weather lately. I heard it was up to 79 yesterday. I missed most of it, The previous day was in the 70's as well. We sure get spoiled to this warm stuff, so I am not going to complain to loudly when we get the expected 29 for a high on Tuesday!! Guess ya just have to take the good with the bad, Having a 'few' of those bad days, should just make me appreciate the good days, RIGHT??? That's the story I'm gonna go with!!!! ha ha I know those of you who have suffered the harsh cold winter thus far this year, are finding little to no sympathy for me, so with that I would just like to point out that, you are used to the continued cold, we have 40 plus degree changes in matters of hours, which creates a traumatic temp change, not to mention never knowing which coat to actually take with you! What, still not finding any sympathy for me? OK I'll quit whining!!!!
Well guess I will go bake something yummy for Pat & Bill. I know Steve is excited to see them both. He gets awe fully bored with us two nagging woman all the time. He is certainly outnumbered, as Ron works most of the time. He certainly enjoyed the visit from Mom's siblings
Thanks again for all the calls & prayers! They are so appreciated!!!!!'
Luv to all,
Saturday, January 29, 2011
Back Home again!
Here is a quick update: WE are back home again. No heart damage. The Doctor said she is was dehydrated and exhausted. He wants her to rest. My question is how are you suppose to do that in the hospital. It is loud, the bells and intercom calls to the nurses on the floor. Helicopters flying in and out. and on and on and on.
She is now home tucked in her bed, were the quiet and comfort of being home and safe can encompass her.
I Must give kudos to the ambulance crew. They were quick and actually found us. They were professional and efficient. Way to go guys.
The Bowie Hospital did their best, but we happened to get there during the 'holiday rush" or something. I need to check to see if there was a full moon or something. The ER was over flowing, and the nurses on the floor were recruited to the ER shorting the staff on the floor. I stayed with her, as trying to get a nurse to do some of the basic bodily tasks, while confined to bed are rather unattainable. I can't recommend their menu. Ordering out might be a better plan!
The hospice group is awesome. The continue to amaze me every step of the way. They are always there, for any and everything. They are a tremendous support group through out it all.
Thank you for all the comments and messages that have been sent. Be assured I have read them all. I apologize for being to tired to address each on right now. I will try to get you all caught up in the next week.
Please keep the comments-emails & face book posts coming. Mom not only loves them but truly looks forward. It is the high light of her day.
For those who write every day! Way to go, you know who you are!! Big pat on the back.
Luv to all, keep the prayers coming!!
She is now home tucked in her bed, were the quiet and comfort of being home and safe can encompass her.
I Must give kudos to the ambulance crew. They were quick and actually found us. They were professional and efficient. Way to go guys.
The Bowie Hospital did their best, but we happened to get there during the 'holiday rush" or something. I need to check to see if there was a full moon or something. The ER was over flowing, and the nurses on the floor were recruited to the ER shorting the staff on the floor. I stayed with her, as trying to get a nurse to do some of the basic bodily tasks, while confined to bed are rather unattainable. I can't recommend their menu. Ordering out might be a better plan!
The hospice group is awesome. The continue to amaze me every step of the way. They are always there, for any and everything. They are a tremendous support group through out it all.
Thank you for all the comments and messages that have been sent. Be assured I have read them all. I apologize for being to tired to address each on right now. I will try to get you all caught up in the next week.
Please keep the comments-emails & face book posts coming. Mom not only loves them but truly looks forward. It is the high light of her day.
For those who write every day! Way to go, you know who you are!! Big pat on the back.
Luv to all, keep the prayers coming!!
Friday, January 28, 2011
UPDATE
Mom had -what we think to be a major angina attack- bad enough that I called the amulance. After she was check out at the hospital, they have decided to keep her over night for observation. There was no heart damage.
I know this is short and to the pint, but wanted to let everyone know. I will post more as I know.
She is comfortable, stable and trying to rest.
Luv to all,
Marj
I know this is short and to the pint, but wanted to let everyone know. I will post more as I know.
She is comfortable, stable and trying to rest.
Luv to all,
Marj
Thursday, January 27, 2011
Some days Suck!
Today is one of them. Mom has had a tough couple days. She is just exhausted. She had been unable to sleep, as she needs to get up every hour or less to go potty. When that constantly wakes you up, tough to sleep at all. We tried a catheter, but due to the clotting, didn't work so well, so we tried again today. Hopefully this will allow her to sleep for hours at a shot, rather than minutes.
She is really weak, but I am confident it is just from need a long winters nap.
We get to enjoy 70 degree weather the next couple days, but winter will be here on Tuesday. High of 35 that day. Then back to the warm stuff again.
The area is already prepping gardens, and working in the compost. I just say oh compost! That's what grocery stores are for. No time right now. Steve is looking forward to the challenge of attempting to out wit the fire aunts and other critters that Montana and Wisconsin were not blessed with.
For everyone who has called lately, sorry, she just wants to sleep. So hoping no one is taking it personally.
Luv to all
She is really weak, but I am confident it is just from need a long winters nap.
We get to enjoy 70 degree weather the next couple days, but winter will be here on Tuesday. High of 35 that day. Then back to the warm stuff again.
The area is already prepping gardens, and working in the compost. I just say oh compost! That's what grocery stores are for. No time right now. Steve is looking forward to the challenge of attempting to out wit the fire aunts and other critters that Montana and Wisconsin were not blessed with.
For everyone who has called lately, sorry, she just wants to sleep. So hoping no one is taking it personally.
Luv to all
Wednesday, January 26, 2011
All quiet on the Texas front
The Wisconsinite's left early yesterday morning for their long trip home. Uncle Butch said he would like to come visit me this summer and help me, but it is to long of a ride, so he better stay at Danny's. It sounds like he enjoyed the ride and seeing the sights, but think he might rather stay with Aunt Lu for a while! Just listening to him, it was easy to tell he LOVES living in his apartment at Uncle Danny & Aunt Lu's! Can't be more proud and happy of how well he is doing and how generally happy he truly is!!!!
He was a great help while he was here. I enjoyed making chicken dumpling soup, and he was very attentive, to insure that it was stirred regularly and that did not scorch. Couldn't have done it without him. He also told me he really liked my living room. Could have something to do with the red color on two walls!
Aunt Linda was a trooper, making such a long trip while still doing cardiac rehab. I hope everyone will continue to keep her in your prayers for a quick and uneventful recovery. I was concerned with making sure that the meals met every one's diets, considering all are now diabetic. Makes me more than concerned that I will eventually meet that same fate. Guess diet and excercise now, is of more importance than ever.
I know mom really needed to see the youngest of the "5 little indians" the "28th street gang" as they were know as. It was great therapy for her heart and soul, and I am quite sure it was for them as well.
One of my former students in Sidney posted the following on face book, I thought it was a great quote to share, although I am not quite sure were it came from:
When things are hitting you all at once, you might check to make sure you aren't traveling in the wrong lane!
Mom is completely wore out, but so enjoyed seeing everyone. Today was much tougher on her than most, but overall, she is doing amazingly well given the cicircumstances. Keep the calls and prayers com'n-even the e-mails she enjoys reading.
Luv to all
He was a great help while he was here. I enjoyed making chicken dumpling soup, and he was very attentive, to insure that it was stirred regularly and that did not scorch. Couldn't have done it without him. He also told me he really liked my living room. Could have something to do with the red color on two walls!
Aunt Linda was a trooper, making such a long trip while still doing cardiac rehab. I hope everyone will continue to keep her in your prayers for a quick and uneventful recovery. I was concerned with making sure that the meals met every one's diets, considering all are now diabetic. Makes me more than concerned that I will eventually meet that same fate. Guess diet and excercise now, is of more importance than ever.
I know mom really needed to see the youngest of the "5 little indians" the "28th street gang" as they were know as. It was great therapy for her heart and soul, and I am quite sure it was for them as well.
One of my former students in Sidney posted the following on face book, I thought it was a great quote to share, although I am not quite sure were it came from:
When things are hitting you all at once, you might check to make sure you aren't traveling in the wrong lane!
Mom is completely wore out, but so enjoyed seeing everyone. Today was much tougher on her than most, but overall, she is doing amazingly well given the cicircumstances. Keep the calls and prayers com'n-even the e-mails she enjoys reading.
Luv to all
Sunday, January 23, 2011
WARNING! WARNING! The gangs all here!
The Wisconsin-gang made the 17 hour trek from Fort Atkinson to Bowie Texas!
All survived the long trip and from the sounds of it, had a great time. Uncle Butch told me he saw lots of things, but he was glad to finally get here. It was a long trip! I agree.
Saturday was spent in anticipation of their arrival. They left at 6am and arrived here about 11:15pm. Roger also came down Saturday night and was able to visit with mom for a while before the 28th street gang party began. The party started with lots of hugs and hello's, and a tour of my home-(actually they all just wanted to know were the bathrooms were located!!)
The visit was cut short, as everyone discovered it was way past their bed times. My wonderful mother in law had a spare guest room for two of my uncles to stay. So everyone had their own beds to cozy up in and rest. Everyone reported a good nights sleep, which got this morning up and running with lots of discussion and coffee drink'n!
Roger set up his magic recoding equipment (good to have the movie guy in house!!) Following breakfast, multiple stories of their child hood and youth were shared. Confession of past digressions and undiscovered pranks filled my home with laughter and lots of "you did what's?? It was amazing to listen to the stories as though they had just happened yesterday. Filled with love and a true memories of a wonderful childhood.
The picture above was taken in my dinning room. I spent the day listening, cooking, and enjoying Uncle Butch helping me make chicken dumpling soup. I could not have done it without him! How fun to spend the day with family.
Uncle Danny complained that the person he sees in the mirror is not the person he expects to see in his mind. I think that is an ailment we all seem to suffer from.
The girls were here most of the day, however Tressa suffered a nail in her tire, but only an inconvenience-nothing that is incurable! That is what road side assistance is for right?
Red velvet cake was shared and enjoyed!!!!! No left overs.......And the bright spot of my day was my two awesomely cute grandsons racing in to the house and hunting me for lots of hugs and kisses, and trust me, I took everyone that were passing out! And stole a few more!
As much fun as I had, I realize I am pretty weary! Time for me to hibernate, to start all over again in the morning!
Luv to all,
Sweet dreams
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Thursday
Her meds are here! I am on my way into pick ethem up! Whoot WhoooT!
Also, in the midst of all the focus on mom, we have failed to give our attention toward her baby sister, Aunt Linda! Aunt Linda who lives in Kenosha Wisconsin is recovering from a myocardial infarction. She was literally in and out of the hospital in days, but is still recovering the aftermath. We are so very excited that she too will be accompanying hr 3 brothers on their trec across state to come and visit their older sister! I cannot tell you how much she is looking forward to having, as they were known as "the 28th street gang" all together again.
So onward I go in making preparations for their arrival. I haven't seen the maid in a while, and darn, were is that magic wand.........................
Also, in the midst of all the focus on mom, we have failed to give our attention toward her baby sister, Aunt Linda! Aunt Linda who lives in Kenosha Wisconsin is recovering from a myocardial infarction. She was literally in and out of the hospital in days, but is still recovering the aftermath. We are so very excited that she too will be accompanying hr 3 brothers on their trec across state to come and visit their older sister! I cannot tell you how much she is looking forward to having, as they were known as "the 28th street gang" all together again.
So onward I go in making preparations for their arrival. I haven't seen the maid in a while, and darn, were is that magic wand.........................
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
It's already Wednesday and still a good week!
We had an early start this morning, as mom had fasting labs at 8am. No food or meds after 10pm last night. I was concerned for her as she went all night and had to wait until after the vampires sucked her dry, before she could have her pain meds, and breakfast. I packed her a mini breakfast, which she had no problem devouring. I was so grateful, she tolerated it with what seemed to be major ease. However, when she got home, she was more than ready for a well deserved nap.
Today we received even more great news. Mom's copay is officially covered and the pharmacy should have her meds in the morning! Yea!
We had a busy day, as a Hospital bed and wheel chair made there way to my house today. This should help with making mom more comfortable. The bed allows her to have her chest and head elevated, making it easier for her to breath and sleep. The side rail allows her to move around and adjust herself more readily.
The chair will assist us in our travels. The oxygen tank just does not trail very easily behind the wheel chair. This will mean I only need 5 hands instead of 6 when on the move! ha ha
This did mean a regroup and a well needed clean up in the office. Finally got the computers plugged back in and this for the most part organized for now. Just needed a bit more floor space, so mission accomplished!
Well, I had better get some work caught up.
Wishing my beautiful red heads a very happy birthday! Can't believe they are 23! I can't tell you how very proud I am of what wonderful young women they are. They have it all, beauty and smarts!-
Luv to all!
Today we received even more great news. Mom's copay is officially covered and the pharmacy should have her meds in the morning! Yea!
We had a busy day, as a Hospital bed and wheel chair made there way to my house today. This should help with making mom more comfortable. The bed allows her to have her chest and head elevated, making it easier for her to breath and sleep. The side rail allows her to move around and adjust herself more readily.
The chair will assist us in our travels. The oxygen tank just does not trail very easily behind the wheel chair. This will mean I only need 5 hands instead of 6 when on the move! ha ha
This did mean a regroup and a well needed clean up in the office. Finally got the computers plugged back in and this for the most part organized for now. Just needed a bit more floor space, so mission accomplished!
Well, I had better get some work caught up.
Wishing my beautiful red heads a very happy birthday! Can't believe they are 23! I can't tell you how very proud I am of what wonderful young women they are. They have it all, beauty and smarts!-
Luv to all!
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
The day following Monday was just as magical!
With the endless trail of paperwork submitted to the drug company and countless prayers, we were blessed with the news, that regardless of the decision Pfizer makes, Mom will have her Chemo treatment. Hopefully she will receive the grant through Pfizer, who will send the medication directly to her. But on the off chance they deny her, the Bowie Hospice will cover the cost of her co-pay! This is truly a blessing and one of the biggest stress reducers we have received! Better than any drug!!
I knew Hospice were angels, but did not realize just how big their wings really are!
I'll update more later, but for now this is me doing my happy dance!!!!!!!!!
I knew Hospice were angels, but did not realize just how big their wings really are!
I'll update more later, but for now this is me doing my happy dance!!!!!!!!!
Monday, January 17, 2011
Some Mondays are just plain good!
Today's visit to the doctor was a productive one. He did change a few of the medications, not by much, but hopefully to achieve a better management. The doctor did confirm something that I have always know. He told us to give her Maalox twice a day, to clean out her system, as her stomach was some what distended. (Translation-she is full of crap!) Yep I was right!!! Ha Ha I found allot more humor in this than did she!
The better of the news is that she should qualify for the Pfizer full copay cost. So her medication should be totally covered. (At least that is what they tell me) Now it is just a hurry up and wait. I seem to be doing allot of that lately. What a difference a day makes. Hoping to find out tomorrow, or we will cover the cost out of pocket. Either way, she will be back on the medication that seems to be slowing the progression of the cell growth.
We also have accepted help from hospice. There is additional assistance through them, that she is not eligible for otherwise. It was tough to hear, but we have, as with the other stumbling blocks we have encountered, accepted it with the grace and love of our Heavenly Father. Knowing that we can get through whatever we need to face in the future.
Now to get my home ready for our much anticipated company. Mom is so very excited to have her siblings all in one place at the same time, if even for a brief moment. She has been preparing for them, for what I am sure will be a non stop compilation of stories of the past and not do distant past. Catching up on each others families. Bragging on the kids and grand kids, and even the great grand kids. Were does all the time go. We blink and the next time you look in the mirror, you have grey hair.(not me, but the rest of you-I still have not had to color my 2 or 3 grey hairs!!!) Just how does that happen? The getting old part.............
It is times like these that make us truly appreciate the phrase, "Life is short-don't waste a second of it!"
Luv to all,
tell the ones you love....That you love them!
The better of the news is that she should qualify for the Pfizer full copay cost. So her medication should be totally covered. (At least that is what they tell me) Now it is just a hurry up and wait. I seem to be doing allot of that lately. What a difference a day makes. Hoping to find out tomorrow, or we will cover the cost out of pocket. Either way, she will be back on the medication that seems to be slowing the progression of the cell growth.
We also have accepted help from hospice. There is additional assistance through them, that she is not eligible for otherwise. It was tough to hear, but we have, as with the other stumbling blocks we have encountered, accepted it with the grace and love of our Heavenly Father. Knowing that we can get through whatever we need to face in the future.
Now to get my home ready for our much anticipated company. Mom is so very excited to have her siblings all in one place at the same time, if even for a brief moment. She has been preparing for them, for what I am sure will be a non stop compilation of stories of the past and not do distant past. Catching up on each others families. Bragging on the kids and grand kids, and even the great grand kids. Were does all the time go. We blink and the next time you look in the mirror, you have grey hair.(not me, but the rest of you-I still have not had to color my 2 or 3 grey hairs!!!) Just how does that happen? The getting old part.............
It is times like these that make us truly appreciate the phrase, "Life is short-don't waste a second of it!"
Luv to all,
tell the ones you love....That you love them!
Sunday, January 16, 2011
Sunday the 16th
I want to thank everyone who has offered thought and direction for covering the cost of mom's chemo treatment. Here is what has been done so far.
I have two applications ready for submission to Pfizer, the manufacturer of the drug she is prescribed, and the other is to a cancer cost assistance network. Here's the catch though, Pfizer requires paperwork and proof of eligibility along with the info from the doctor and more paper work. She may be eligible, but it will take 4-6 weeks for approval. So in the meantime, I either cover the cost while we wait or she goes without the medication. Considering that the two weeks she was on the medication made a difference, with the reduction of the amount of nodules in her last x-ray-waiting just cannot be in her future.
The second, a co-pay assistance network is one who's qualifications include that you have Medicare and the supplemental and drug coverage, which mom has, and finally having a low income, which should qualify her. But again, the doctor must fill out and sign forms and there is a vast array of paperwork to submit as well. This may be the better option, however it, as with Pfizer, it is hurry up and wait. Time is not a luxury we currently have to waste! So depending on what I find out on Monday, when I go to the doctors on Tuesday, I will most likely be financing the pharmacists wages for the week! ha ha
I tried to win the lottery, but my dollar was just donated to the winner I guess!
Enjoy the rest of your weekend, for those of you who work, Monday is tomorrow!
Luv to all
I have two applications ready for submission to Pfizer, the manufacturer of the drug she is prescribed, and the other is to a cancer cost assistance network. Here's the catch though, Pfizer requires paperwork and proof of eligibility along with the info from the doctor and more paper work. She may be eligible, but it will take 4-6 weeks for approval. So in the meantime, I either cover the cost while we wait or she goes without the medication. Considering that the two weeks she was on the medication made a difference, with the reduction of the amount of nodules in her last x-ray-waiting just cannot be in her future.
The second, a co-pay assistance network is one who's qualifications include that you have Medicare and the supplemental and drug coverage, which mom has, and finally having a low income, which should qualify her. But again, the doctor must fill out and sign forms and there is a vast array of paperwork to submit as well. This may be the better option, however it, as with Pfizer, it is hurry up and wait. Time is not a luxury we currently have to waste! So depending on what I find out on Monday, when I go to the doctors on Tuesday, I will most likely be financing the pharmacists wages for the week! ha ha
I tried to win the lottery, but my dollar was just donated to the winner I guess!
Enjoy the rest of your weekend, for those of you who work, Monday is tomorrow!
Luv to all
Friday, January 14, 2011
Another stumbling block!
Well, the insurance has approved her chemo treatment! This is a good thing. But, the not so good thing is.......wait for it.....Co-Payment is...again....wait for it.........$987 per month. Yep, pocket change right?? SO let's listen to their reason for not allowing her to receive her medication at 100% coverage,.......her house hold income is too high! WHAT??? REALLY???? SO let's do the math, shall we? Chemo meds $987, plus house payment plus utilities.....oh wait, just ran out of money!!
So, now I am working on finding some additional grants or angle networks. In the mean time we wait, and time begins to work against us. Along with the fact that it is the weekend now, and I have to wait until Monday. Do these people not realize, patience is not my best asset??
If you are noting a bit of frustration, you are correct. A plus for you. Guess this is one of those test we receive from time to time on faith. I do have faith, but like it to work faster, ya know on my schedule not Heavenly Fathers schedule. I must learn, some day, this lesson. Yes I am working on it. Admitting you have a problem is the first step right????
I think I will go take a hot shower and head to bed. Maybe a good nights sleep will make for a better morning!
Luv to all
So, now I am working on finding some additional grants or angle networks. In the mean time we wait, and time begins to work against us. Along with the fact that it is the weekend now, and I have to wait until Monday. Do these people not realize, patience is not my best asset??
If you are noting a bit of frustration, you are correct. A plus for you. Guess this is one of those test we receive from time to time on faith. I do have faith, but like it to work faster, ya know on my schedule not Heavenly Fathers schedule. I must learn, some day, this lesson. Yes I am working on it. Admitting you have a problem is the first step right????
I think I will go take a hot shower and head to bed. Maybe a good nights sleep will make for a better morning!
Luv to all
Thursday, January 13, 2011
A visit to the Doctor
We left the house by 8am, and headed to Wichita Falls. I can't deny the high level of anticipation at what the assessment would be today. We have had a few small setbacks, and of course the diagnosis of "CANCER" alone is enough to create an added dose of depression for everyone concerned.
But, after the chest X-ray, and labs the doctor informed us he had both good and not so good news. The good news, is there appear to be less nodules in her x-ray than the one 2 weeks prior. Awesome news- and I quickly raised my head to the heavens for a heart felt thank you to our Heavenly Father who has been with us from the beginning.
The not so good news--insurance is still in progress for the chemo medication. Mom finished the the sample bottle he gave her, yesterday. We are suppose to hear tomorrow, so again I will have cramped hands and feet from crossing the toes and fingers!
Getting the patient assistance may be a longer process, so once again, we hurry up and wait! But with the better news, the waiting is not quite so painful this go 'round!
In celebration, we went Olive Garden for Lunch. Mom was introduced to the 'Tour of Italy" the fettachini was her favorite. Now I know were Christine gets it from. Steve enjoyed a sampler plater, which included calamari. Glad he got those slimey sea creatures instead of me!
Just want to spread the thought around that prayer does work, mom is currently proof of that. Keep them coming and working together, we can beat this!
To those of you who are also meeting challenges and health issues of your own, we wish you the love and comfort of our Heavenly Father. May you feel his loving arms wrapped all around you! With him all things are possible.
Luv and prayers to all.
But, after the chest X-ray, and labs the doctor informed us he had both good and not so good news. The good news, is there appear to be less nodules in her x-ray than the one 2 weeks prior. Awesome news- and I quickly raised my head to the heavens for a heart felt thank you to our Heavenly Father who has been with us from the beginning.
The not so good news--insurance is still in progress for the chemo medication. Mom finished the the sample bottle he gave her, yesterday. We are suppose to hear tomorrow, so again I will have cramped hands and feet from crossing the toes and fingers!
Getting the patient assistance may be a longer process, so once again, we hurry up and wait! But with the better news, the waiting is not quite so painful this go 'round!
In celebration, we went Olive Garden for Lunch. Mom was introduced to the 'Tour of Italy" the fettachini was her favorite. Now I know were Christine gets it from. Steve enjoyed a sampler plater, which included calamari. Glad he got those slimey sea creatures instead of me!
Just want to spread the thought around that prayer does work, mom is currently proof of that. Keep them coming and working together, we can beat this!
To those of you who are also meeting challenges and health issues of your own, we wish you the love and comfort of our Heavenly Father. May you feel his loving arms wrapped all around you! With him all things are possible.
Luv and prayers to all.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Jan 12 2011
Well, I am hoping it will start warming up tomorrow. At least that is what the weather man says! Which really doesn't mean much when you think about it! I am giving him the benefit of the doubt, just because I am really wanting warmer weather. Dreaming of the 60+ for Saturday.
The kids are heading back to reality, and should be driving in Louisiana about now. Looking forward to seeing them tomorrow. Wishing them safe travels. Most 'Grandparents' who get their grandkids during the time their kids are on vacation usually consists of children. ME, I am babysitting Tressa's lab Cooper, Christine's designer dog Jesse (cuz I am not allowed to call her a mutt) and her 'PET' tarantula, Hector, and Hector's food supply, a container of crickets. (The crickets are very noisy!!) But it has been entertaining.
Once again, Mom is in the lead in the ongoing Cribbage tournament. That put a smirk (did I say that out loud?) I ment smile on her face, but she did it gracefully.
Tomorrow makes 1 month since mom was told the news that has changed her life. We again see the oncologist, to see how effective the treatment has been. Again, fingers and toes crossed, and lots of prayers aimed upstairs!
Here is hopes for a better tomorrow!
Luv to all
The kids are heading back to reality, and should be driving in Louisiana about now. Looking forward to seeing them tomorrow. Wishing them safe travels. Most 'Grandparents' who get their grandkids during the time their kids are on vacation usually consists of children. ME, I am babysitting Tressa's lab Cooper, Christine's designer dog Jesse (cuz I am not allowed to call her a mutt) and her 'PET' tarantula, Hector, and Hector's food supply, a container of crickets. (The crickets are very noisy!!) But it has been entertaining.
Once again, Mom is in the lead in the ongoing Cribbage tournament. That put a smirk (did I say that out loud?) I ment smile on her face, but she did it gracefully.
Tomorrow makes 1 month since mom was told the news that has changed her life. We again see the oncologist, to see how effective the treatment has been. Again, fingers and toes crossed, and lots of prayers aimed upstairs!
Here is hopes for a better tomorrow!
Luv to all
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
January 1, 2011 AKA- 1-11-11
Another cold winter day in Texas. We are expecting a low of 13 tonight with a high of only 31 degrees tomorrow. But, that is ok, as by Friday it will be 52 and in the upper 60's this weekend. SO ..........I can handle 4 days of winter.
We are looking forward to having moms siblings come down. We are expecting them on the 23 for several days. Look out Bowie Texas! The herd will be loose!
Also looks like Roger and his family will be here then as well. We will get to raise the roof!
Mom and Steve were in the final five points of the finish line in a game of cribbage, Mom counted first, and had....zip zero zilch!!!!!! No cigar! Steve has a 26 point hand and another 16 in the crib. What a total waste of points. Second game Mom did woop-up on him. Lots of big point hands. Must be the "every thing is bigger in Texas" thing they talk about!!!
It was fun to listen to them badgering each other back and forth. Allot of laughing was happening at the table.
Thursday we go to see the oncologist again. Prayers are certainly welcomed. Hoping for a great report. I currently have fingers and toes crossed.
We are all looking forward to seeing the pictures the kids took while in Florida. Tressa has reportedly taken more than 1200. Might be an all day photo review to see them all. Should be a great time.
Hope all of you up north are keeping warm Have faith, it will warm up some day next summer! ha ha
Luv to all!
We are looking forward to having moms siblings come down. We are expecting them on the 23 for several days. Look out Bowie Texas! The herd will be loose!
Also looks like Roger and his family will be here then as well. We will get to raise the roof!
Mom and Steve were in the final five points of the finish line in a game of cribbage, Mom counted first, and had....zip zero zilch!!!!!! No cigar! Steve has a 26 point hand and another 16 in the crib. What a total waste of points. Second game Mom did woop-up on him. Lots of big point hands. Must be the "every thing is bigger in Texas" thing they talk about!!!
It was fun to listen to them badgering each other back and forth. Allot of laughing was happening at the table.
Thursday we go to see the oncologist again. Prayers are certainly welcomed. Hoping for a great report. I currently have fingers and toes crossed.
We are all looking forward to seeing the pictures the kids took while in Florida. Tressa has reportedly taken more than 1200. Might be an all day photo review to see them all. Should be a great time.
Hope all of you up north are keeping warm Have faith, it will warm up some day next summer! ha ha
Luv to all!
Sunday, January 9, 2011
Jan. 9- The begining of a new week
It has been an uneventful weekend, although so many called Mom this week, and she caught up on family she may have missed. I think she is liking having long distance-she doesn't have to worry about one of those "Oh my gosh" phone bills. She is also liking the higher speed Internet. (Notice-I said higher speed, not high speed-it is pretty fast, but still has me reaching for a big club--occasionally!!) But it does allow her to view and send pictures and she can now watch videos. She has had a blast watching Clayton's video!
We have enjoyed the girls & Brandon's trip to Disney World. I love that technology allows you to see pics as they happen. Ya don't have to wait until they get back, and develop pictures. It really amazes me sometimes.
We had a -all be it-brief snow scare this morning. Started out raining, then turned to sleet-then big flakes, and for about 18 minutes, we a full white ground cover. Thank goodness, winter is now over!! 2 hours of winter is all I need! haha We are expecting cool temperatures the remainder of the week, but looking forward to Saturdays warm 60's again. This is the reason I moved to Texas!!! Warm winters!!!
Rumor has it, that Mom's siblings will be making the trek to North Texas! She is really looking forward to their visit. I am sure we can find a place for everyone to sleep. The dogs are usually good about sharing their doghouse, and barn is always full of hay! Just kidding...
Roger and his family will also be heading this way soon, so my very quiet house is enjoying lots of activity and welcomed company. Brandon will be back with the girls on Thursday, (I think) It is nice having the tree of them around if even for a short time.
I might get to sneak my monsters over one of these next few days. Nothing better then hugs, smiles and giggles from my two little grandsons.
Thursday we head back to the doctor to see how the chemo is working, and what progress has been made.
Keep calling her, she loves hearing from everyone. If you need the number, message me or follow the previous blogs. It is posted.
Luv to all, enjoy each other!!!!!
We have enjoyed the girls & Brandon's trip to Disney World. I love that technology allows you to see pics as they happen. Ya don't have to wait until they get back, and develop pictures. It really amazes me sometimes.
We had a -all be it-brief snow scare this morning. Started out raining, then turned to sleet-then big flakes, and for about 18 minutes, we a full white ground cover. Thank goodness, winter is now over!! 2 hours of winter is all I need! haha We are expecting cool temperatures the remainder of the week, but looking forward to Saturdays warm 60's again. This is the reason I moved to Texas!!! Warm winters!!!
Rumor has it, that Mom's siblings will be making the trek to North Texas! She is really looking forward to their visit. I am sure we can find a place for everyone to sleep. The dogs are usually good about sharing their doghouse, and barn is always full of hay! Just kidding...
Roger and his family will also be heading this way soon, so my very quiet house is enjoying lots of activity and welcomed company. Brandon will be back with the girls on Thursday, (I think) It is nice having the tree of them around if even for a short time.
I might get to sneak my monsters over one of these next few days. Nothing better then hugs, smiles and giggles from my two little grandsons.
Thursday we head back to the doctor to see how the chemo is working, and what progress has been made.
Keep calling her, she loves hearing from everyone. If you need the number, message me or follow the previous blogs. It is posted.
Luv to all, enjoy each other!!!!!
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Mom's day out!
Took mom and Steve into Bowie today. Steve checked out the local junk shops, (did I say that out loud?) ment 'ANTIQUE' shops. He had a great time. He found 4 new books @ $.25. He's a bargan hunter I tell ya!
We are true rednecks, as Walmart was a fun filled adventure. Ya haven't traveled until someone askes you, "Were'd ja go ta-day?" and you answer with excitment "Walmart!"
She handled it welll, and overall, had a great day.
Luv to all!
She handled it welll, and overall, had a great day.
Luv to all!
Monday, January 3, 2011
January 3rd
It would seem that mom is gaining some of her strength back. But don't get between her and her Internet! It's like gett'n between a woman and her chocolate! Technology is great, until ya can't get it to work.
I worked in Fort Worth today, so Mom and Steve again had to fend for themselves, but managed very well.
Thank goodness for left overs. Dang, I just realized I have to cook tomorrow! haha
Tomorrow is a work from home day, and I have allot to catch up on. I am just grateful I am able to work from home, and that my hours are not exactly "set" so I can work around the schedules that need to be met. Sound confusing I know, but it works.
It was 57 today, and I am so glad we have warmer weather. Ron has always said about the north (remember we lived there for 45 plus years!!) When you live in the north, you are either brave or stupid. When you work outside day after day, in the 40 below winters, and you don't know better, you are defiantly brave. BUTT, once you move to a place with warmer winters, and you choose to live int he coooold north with 40 below winters, you are just stupid! ha ha hahaha (with that being said......were do you fit in! Just kidding...)
We were able to get the rest of girls stuff moved yesterday, with the muscles from Brandon -Ron-Ryan & Thain & Tanny. So glad that is over. The best part was getting lots of hugs and "I luv you gramma" from my grandsons. I so needed a monster men fix so bad! Best medicine ever!!!
I made Mom a root beer float today. I never knew they have "no sugar" ice cream and the diet root beer--- (I got to be cool!!!!-Love it when I find fun stuff for her to eat-meals tend to be a bit boring)
Well this girl is gonna head to bed. 5am came really early this morning. I am ready to check my eyelids for holes, it may take up to 12 hours to insure no leaks! Luv to all-thanks for the prayers!! They are working.
I worked in Fort Worth today, so Mom and Steve again had to fend for themselves, but managed very well.
Thank goodness for left overs. Dang, I just realized I have to cook tomorrow! haha
Tomorrow is a work from home day, and I have allot to catch up on. I am just grateful I am able to work from home, and that my hours are not exactly "set" so I can work around the schedules that need to be met. Sound confusing I know, but it works.
It was 57 today, and I am so glad we have warmer weather. Ron has always said about the north (remember we lived there for 45 plus years!!) When you live in the north, you are either brave or stupid. When you work outside day after day, in the 40 below winters, and you don't know better, you are defiantly brave. BUTT, once you move to a place with warmer winters, and you choose to live int he coooold north with 40 below winters, you are just stupid! ha ha hahaha (with that being said......were do you fit in! Just kidding...)
We were able to get the rest of girls stuff moved yesterday, with the muscles from Brandon -Ron-Ryan & Thain & Tanny. So glad that is over. The best part was getting lots of hugs and "I luv you gramma" from my grandsons. I so needed a monster men fix so bad! Best medicine ever!!!
I made Mom a root beer float today. I never knew they have "no sugar" ice cream and the diet root beer--- (I got to be cool!!!!-Love it when I find fun stuff for her to eat-meals tend to be a bit boring)
Well this girl is gonna head to bed. 5am came really early this morning. I am ready to check my eyelids for holes, it may take up to 12 hours to insure no leaks! Luv to all-thanks for the prayers!! They are working.
Saturday, January 1, 2011
A New and Happy year!
Today is the beginning of 2011, and it started off with everyone getting a good night's sleep. Most of us were in bed by 9:30pm. Today was moving day for the girls, as they have moved from their 3rd floor apartment (No elevator!!!) to a very nice house with a back yard for the dogs (aka their kids!!)
Some how I always manage to fill the very limited days off Ron has, with work work work. Today he was praying for an emergency to get out of moving!! Moving on the 1st of the year was not the best plan, as all the help they had lined up, for one reason or another, was unable to make it to help.
But, the Calvary arrived in the form of Ron and Brandon! Dunt dunt DAAA! The girls had no idea Brandon would be here today. They were expecting him on Monday. Surprise surprise! He is stationed in Phoenix AZ (Air force) He is a crew chief, and helps keeps our airforce up and running!
The girls were blown away. They also have a very good friend, named John who came to help them until he had to go to work. He got off last night at midnight, and was at their apartment by 9am, and helped them until 15 minutes before he had to go back to work at 4pm. That is friendship!!!
Mom and Steve enjoyed getting to finally see Brandon as well. It is awesome to have him home for a while.
Because we were gone helping the girls today, Mom and Steve were on their own, but I think probably they enjoyed the quiet and not having to put up with me all day!!!! Ya know how us nagging kids are!
I hope everyone had a wonderful New Years Eve, and here's hoping the new year provides all the blessing you may need, and that you may feel the comfort of our Heavenly Father's arms around you, when you are in need! It keeps my sanity, and provides more comfort for me than anything else!
Some how I always manage to fill the very limited days off Ron has, with work work work. Today he was praying for an emergency to get out of moving!! Moving on the 1st of the year was not the best plan, as all the help they had lined up, for one reason or another, was unable to make it to help.
But, the Calvary arrived in the form of Ron and Brandon! Dunt dunt DAAA! The girls had no idea Brandon would be here today. They were expecting him on Monday. Surprise surprise! He is stationed in Phoenix AZ (Air force) He is a crew chief, and helps keeps our airforce up and running!
The girls were blown away. They also have a very good friend, named John who came to help them until he had to go to work. He got off last night at midnight, and was at their apartment by 9am, and helped them until 15 minutes before he had to go back to work at 4pm. That is friendship!!!
Mom and Steve enjoyed getting to finally see Brandon as well. It is awesome to have him home for a while.
Because we were gone helping the girls today, Mom and Steve were on their own, but I think probably they enjoyed the quiet and not having to put up with me all day!!!! Ya know how us nagging kids are!
I hope everyone had a wonderful New Years Eve, and here's hoping the new year provides all the blessing you may need, and that you may feel the comfort of our Heavenly Father's arms around you, when you are in need! It keeps my sanity, and provides more comfort for me than anything else!
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